I didn’t give up drinking plus getting high just because I had kids, however I did pump the breaks quite a bit. I will divulge that I used to be a “celebration animal” plus got drunk plus stoned every single evening of the week. Then Mary plus I found out every one of us were going to have a baby, plus I had to make some changes in my life. I welcomed these changes, plus vowed to Mary that I would be a wonderful father to this baby. Even though I never considered parenthood before, now that it was thrust upon myself and others I looked forward to it! Of course I had to stop drinking so much, plus I could no longer smoke cigarettes or cannabis in the home or around Mary. Her pregnancy was a period of transition for me, because I knew that I would need to permanently change my cannabis habit. Once the baby came, I would need to be free plus clear of all smoke, including tobacco plus cannabis. Mary explained to myself and others how dangerous secondhand smoke can be to a baby, plus even if I smoked cannabis outside I could still cause disfigure. Mary has typically been a lot smarter than I am, so I took her at her word, plus switched over to using cannabis edibles plus oils. The math is still entirely current about how cannabis oil vapor can impact young people, however all the people agrees it is less harmful than cannabis smoke. I still don’t want to take any chances, so for now I will use the vape pen, however when the baby is born I will only use cannabis edibles.